Change Is Painful, But …

change is painful

A lot of changes have happened for my family in the past year. The biggest change happened a little over a month ago. I quit my job and Art, Bud and I packed up the dogs and moved to Oregon. We are currently living with Art’s parents, while looking for jobs and housing.

Even though this was a planned move, it was still a gigantic leap of faith and has been very scary. Moving away from almost all our friends and everything we were familiar with was painful.  There were lots of tears and sleepless nights.

Let’s face it, most change is painful. The process of metamorphosis, as shown in the photo above, can’t be easy for the poor caterpillar. I’m pretty sure Dr. Jekyll didn’t consider it a party when he transformed into Mr. Hyde.  And what about poor Eustace Scrubb in The Voyage of the ‘Dawn Treader’ ?

In the book, Eustace stumbles upon a huge treasure, which he decides to keep for himself. He falls asleep with a gold bracelet on his boy arm, and wakes up with the bracelet cutting off the circulation of his dragon leg? What? A dragon leg? Eustace realizes that his greed has trapped him and he begins to cry.

Aslan arrives, and leads Eustace to a well, at the center of a garden.

Eustace looks at the well and wants to get into the water to soothe the pain in his leg, but Aslan says he will have to be undressed first.  Eustace realizes that he is a dragon and that dragons have skins like snakes which could be shed. With his new claws, Eustace begins tearing at his dragon skin. He peels off one layer only to discover another nasty, scaly, and rough layer underneath. And then another. After three layers, he realizes it’s vain — he will never make himself clean or get rid of his pain or shed the nasty skin. He allows Aslan to help him “undress.”

The very first tear he made was so deep that I thought it had gone right into my heart. And when he began pulling the skin off, it hurt worse than anything I’ve ever felt. The only thing that made me able to bear it was just the pleasure of feeling the stuff peel off. . . . – C.S. Lewis – Voyage of the Dawntreader

Should we avoid the pain? I don’t think so. We could have stayed in Napa, but the high prices were making it more and more difficult to make ends meet. Oregon is much more affordable and I know everything will happen according to God’s plan.

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says theLord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. – Jeremiah 29:11

Have you ever made a major change? How did God provide for you? Please share in the comments.


Bullying Prevention Month Resources

bully prevention resources
Photo courtesy of Thomas Ricker on Flickr Creative Commons

October is Bullying Prevention Month.  Over the years, I have told the story of our family’s ordeals with bullying, as well  as offered resources and tips on how to deal with bullying.  Here is a roundup of all my bullying posts:

When Older Kids are Bullied -Part One

When Older Kids are Bullied – Part Two

When Older Kids are Bullied – Part Three

Tips and Tricks for Dealing with Childhood Bullies

Cyberbullying – Part One

Cyberbullying – Part Two

Tips and Tricks for Dealing with Cyber Stalking

Checked In – Is Social Media Stalking You?

How to File a Civil Temporary Restraining Order – A Resource for Victims of Cyberbullying/Cyberstalking

BGCA CyberSafe Futures Intitiative